Many families go through a difficult time with their teenage children. Lack of effective communication, frustration, and negativity can put a strain on any parent/child relationship. The following is a letter we received from a father who participated in the Family Solutions Program last year. This family was struggling with many of the same issues other families struggle with. They made the commitment to participate in the 10 week program and found they became a stronger, closer family.
I think this course has helped my family and me in several ways. From dealing with communication issues to career planning for my children, the benefits of learning these fundamental skills far outweigh a lazy evening watching television at home on the couch.
The class that helped me the most was the one where we did the family challenge. We had to construct a structure out of tooth picks and jelly candy. The trick is that we couldn’t talk. We struggled at first, but then prevailed. Unfortunately, I had become so stressed at home that I couldn’t even enjoy playing a game with my kids. This activity opened that back up to me and we now play board games a good bit.
The second skill that I really have picked up on was our communication. Every night I actually look forward to talking about the kids' days with them. Before it was a cursory question, as we walked in the door. Now I make the point to listen to each thing they say and open them up to more topics.
My kids also learned a lot and still talk about the education segment and making money. I think this may have opened their eyes for their future needs.
I will continue to use these new skills and training. I hope I can make our family stronger and happier.
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